Blog 14

I feel that this last chapter of Corey and Corey’s (2010) textbook fits perfectly with the direction that the end of this semester is leading me in. Those of us in Theory and Practice II were asked to continue our journaling process from last semester with something we want to change about ourselves. Since we were turned loose this semester and granted some freedom on how to journal, my process lacked zeal and motivation. Corey and Corey (2010) provide me with the structure that may be necessary in order for me to continue leading a meaningful, productive life. I took to heart their suggestions on 408-410 on how to continue the journey of self-discovery we all took in this class. While I doubt that I’ll be visiting the self-help (or self-hell, as Carrie Bradshaw so eloquently put it in an episode of Sex and the City) aisle at the bookstore any time soon, I will make more of an effort to take time to read and be mindful of my actions.

            I think I would like to spend the final section of this journal entry reflecting on how Corey and Corey’s (2010) various chapters have helped me to shape myself into a better person. First and foremost, the love and relationship chapters opened my eyes to reasons behind why I was acting inauthentically in some of my romantic relationships. Being in the state I am now (i.e. single) I feel that I can regenerate (sorry, I’ve been watching Doctor Who) as an individual so that I can come into my next relationship as my optimal person.

            Second, I often think about the chapter on wellness when Corey and Corey (2010) talked about listening to our bodies when they are trying to tell us things. First of all, I am a serious hypochondriac (even as I’m typing this I’m feeling my forehead to see if I have a fever) so I have learned not to pop an ibuprofen whenever I feel the slightest bit off. . .instead I need to pay attention to whether or not I am feeling right spiritually and mentally.

            Finally, I would like to draw attention to the “Where am I now?” portions of the text. Although I didn’t always fill them out while I was reading, during the small group discussions they provided a framework for us to open up to each other, learn things, and share our stories. The interpersonal aspect of the class is something that allowed me to form solid friendships with all of you that I may not have had otherwise. Thank you all so much for your courage to share your stories.

Corey, G. & Corey, M.S. (2010). I never knew I had a choice: Explorations in personal growth (9^th ed.). Belmont, California: Thompson Brooks/Cole.