When
going over the stages of infancy, early childhood, middle childhood, and
adolescence I remembered a lot from my undergraduate career. I remember the trust versus mistrust, autonomy
versus shame and doubt, industry versus inferiority, and identity versus role
confusion. Even though I knew what these
were, Corey and Corey (2008) provided a different aspect to Erikson’s model
that allowed me to think deeply about myself that I have never thought before
within these stages. One of the stages
that stood out to me the most is the trust versus mistrust. For myself, I felt that I have more mistrust
than I do trust. I never knew or thought
about why this was but when going over this section I thought a lot about my
life. The significant person I was
missing in my life was my father. My dad
was not around a lot when I was young and then my parents got divorced when I
was about eight years old. This really
resonates with me and I don’t know why I did not think about it earlier. For myself it just makes sense. I understand now why I have more mistrust
than trust and can work though my past to understand who I am today.
I
also liked the piece in the book devoted to attachment theory. I
watched a video in my adolescent development class at Messiah College that gave
me great insight on what the theory was about.
In that class we talked about how if a child exhibits distress when
their caretaker leaves and then when the caretaker comes back the child returns
to normal that the child will have meaningful relationships when they get
older. I always thought that this was
interesting and I hope that someday when I have kids that my child will be like
this.
Transitioning
to the article we had to read, the question that the research was about was why
does adolescents indulged in risk taking behavior compared to the other stages
of development (Steinberg, 2008). When
reading this article, all I could think about was didn’t the field already
figure this out. Adolescents are
involved in more risk taking behavior because they think they are invincible and
that it is the time of their lives to make mistakes. Even though I felt like this was already known,
I feel that the article was a good one that expressed its own findings through cognitive
analysis.
Corey, G.,
& Corey, M.S. (2008). I never knew I
had a choice: Explorations in personal growth. (9th ed.).
Belmont, California: Thompson Brooks/Cole.
Steinberg, L. (2008). A
social neuroscience perspective on adolescent risk-taking. Developmental Review, 28, 78-106
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