Getting to review Erikson’s stages of development was a nice
refresher from what l learned during my undergrad. This chapter provided for a lot of time to
reflect. One thing that did really stand
out in the text this week was the idea of ego-defense mechanisms. As soon as I read rationalization, I immediately connected. I will never forget the one year at the Dillsburg
Dual Shootout (soccer tournament). I was
probably 12, and the game ended in a tie.
5 players on each team had to
take penalty kicks to break the tie. I
was up---just me and goalie—everybody watching—and—I missed. L I was so upset and couldn’t hold in the
tears. The most important part of this
story is at this point, I decided to fake an injury and tell everybody I
twisted my ankle, and that is why I missed.
Naturally, my mom made me an icepack and I sat icing my “injury” for the
next few hours.
The article also lead to lots of reminiscing! I read a quote in the article that stood out
to me. Steinberg (2008) said, “as a
general rule, adolescents and young adults are more likely than adults over 25
to binge drink, smoke cigarettes, have casual sex partners, engage in violent
and other criminal behavior, and have fatal or serious automobile accidents, the
majority of which are caused by risky driving or driving under the influence of
alcohol.”
There is a large part of me that can agree with the opinion
of the author, and I can believe that there are changes in our brain during
this time period that may play a role in the choice to participate in risky
behaviors. However, I also believe that
this particular period in a person’s life lends itself to being a more
convenient time for risk-taking. Most
adolescents gain access to transportation other than their parents. So for the first time, it is may be viewed as
“easy” to get away with some risky-behaviors.
Most adolescents are given more freedom from their parents simply because
they are getting older—is this an invitation to take a risk? Most adolescents
have minimal responsibilities compared to adults---They are simply expected to
be physically present in school. Other responsibilities come as a
choice---after school job, sports, clubs, and participation in church. And hasn’t it always been noted that the more
involved adolescents are, the less likely they are to get into trouble? During these years the amount of free time is
greater than any other. Realistically
these kids can potentially have from 3-11pm to do whatever they choose.
I can honestly admit
I participated in many risk-taking behaviors between the ages of 15 and
20. As I look at my life now-as a 25
year old, risk-taking behavior has dramatically declined. Why? Well,
for starters—I already did most of it, and the desire to do it again isn’t
there. Secondly, I have too many
responsibilities that would come first.
I have a job in which I am expected to be physically, mentally, and
emotionally present 40-50 hours a week.
I have a class on Tuesday evenings, dinner with my dad on Wednesdays,
dinner with my mom on Thursdays…when do I even have time to be risk-ay????
So I guess in conclusion, I believe many factors play a role
in the fact that adolescents are more likely to participate in risk-taking
behaviors. Not only can I believe that
changes in the brain occur during this period, but also that psychological
developments plays a role, as well as simple convenience due to less
responsibility.
Corey, G. , & Corey, M.S. (2008).
I never knew I had a choice: Explorations in personal growth (9th
ed.). Belmont, California: Thompson Brooks/Cole.
Steinberg, L. (2008). A social neuroscience perspective on
adolescent risk-taking. Developmental Review, 78-106.
Like what you said Hillary. Completely agree with ya on the adolescents craziness haha.
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